Life After Life toolkit
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Life After Life

Rest in Peace. Grow in Nature.

Role
User Researcher
UI/UX Designer
Skills
User Research
Design & Prototyping
Timeline
Sep 2024 – Dec 2024
Team
Kim Au Le · Adeline Li
Quy An Le · Nick Nguyen

Problem Statement

Planning a funeral is one of life's most emotional moments. Yet, it often feels cold, rushed, and environmentally taxing. We envisioned a more compassionate approach — one that honors both the individual and the planet.

Our mission: Life After Life is a gentle, approachable end-of-life planning toolkit designed to explore sustainable options, facilitate meaningful conversations, and help individuals have farewells that truly reflect who they are — while being kind to the Earth.

Mission

Who It's For

Self-planner

People planning their own end-of-life arrangement and eco-friendly funeral.

Family Collaborator

Families making funeral decisions who want to honor their loved one's values.

Design challenge: How might we provide clear, practical tools while honoring the sensitivity of grief and farewell?

Our Approach

Before we jumped into design, we knew we had to slow down and listen. We conducted extensive user research using 3 different methods: user interviews, surveys, and guided tours.

Death is a deeply personal, emotional, and often avoided topic. So our research wasn't just about identifying problems — it was about understanding the emotions, cultural nuances, and unspoken tensions that surround end-of-life planning.

Research approach

What We Heard

☹︎1

"I don't know where to start."

People wanted to make decisions that reflected their values, but felt lost in logistics, paperwork, and unfamiliar terminology.

☹︎2

"I didn't even know I had options."

Sustainable alternatives like tree burials or human composting were rarely known or accessible.

☹︎3

"I want to talk about it, but I don't want to upset anyone."

People often avoided discussing death with loved ones, even when they wanted to, out of fear of discomfort or cultural taboos.

Research findings
Research synthesis

After listening to people talk about their experiences with loss and funeral planning, one thing became clear: most people didn't know where to start, and when they tried, it felt either too emotional, too overwhelming, or too cold. We wanted to explore ways to make end-of-life planning feel more like a reflection of who someone is, not just a checklist of logistics.

Insights

Why Not Start With An App?

At first, we imagined Life After Life as a simple digital tool you could use on your phone. But after really listening to the people we were designing for, we discovered something important.

Approachable for Older Adults

For people in their 60s–80s, something they can hold and flip through just feels easier.

Brings People Together

A physical product lets families sit down, share, and reflect together at their own pace.

Gives Space to Reflect

Planning takes time; physical products allow thoughtful conversations before decisions.

Why physical
Physical toolkit

Design Solutions

Our design process highlighted the need for a multi-layered approach — a toolkit you can hold, share, and grow with: a card deck, a planning book, and one day, a journey to the forest. Each piece serves a different role:

Discover

The forest offers a space to reconnect with nature and legacy.

Engage

The card deck sparks meaningful conversation with loved ones.

Learn

Chapter 1 of the book helps users explore eco-friendly options.

Reflect

Chapter 2 guides users to reflect on what legacy they want to leave behind.

Decide

Chapter 3 helps users decide and finalize their wishes.

Toolkit overview
Toolkit pieces
Toolkit pieces

Use-Case Scenario

To ensure our design proposal actually works — the Brochure, Card Deck, and Guidebook — we tested them in a use-case scenario featuring Tim, a son looking to help his mom plan her end-of-life arrangements, and Tracy, Tim's mom, who wants to prepare in advance.

  • Tim discovers a brochure at the library introducing a toolkit for end-of-life planning.
  • He decides to get the toolkit to help start a conversation with his mom.
  • Tim and Tracy use the card deck to break the ice and make planning easier to discuss.
  • The book helps Tracy reflect on her life and the legacy she wants to leave behind.
  • She learns about sustainable funeral methods and considers her preferences.
  • Using the book's checklist, she finalizes her decisions for a meaningful, eco-friendly plan.
  • They contact and meet with the funeral service provided in the book to discuss a detailed plan.
  • With Tim's help and the toolkit, she creates a thoughtful plan, finding peace in being prepared.
  • After her passing, the family treasures the legacy book, finding comfort in her words and memories.
Use-case scenario
Scenario
Scenario

🚌 Discovery

The bus tour to the forest is designed for elders, families, and care homes to visit a place where death and life meet. In this Memorial National Forest, donated soil from human composting nourishes trees and native landscapes. Visitors walk through winding paths and learn more about sustainable funeral alternatives. Inside the Visitor Center, they can explore:

  • Interactive exhibits on green burial methods.
  • A welcoming Death Café, where death doulas host open, gentle conversations.
  • A holographic forest map, where families can locate trees nurtured by their loved one's soil.
  • A Memory Room to view photos, messages, or videos on anniversaries.
Forest discovery
Visitor center
Memory room

🎴 Engage — "How Deep Can You Get?" Card Deck

During the visit, visitors are introduced to the card deck, which offers a gentle way to open up about the topic with loved ones. Designed for families and care homes, the deck moves through three tiers of depth:

1 foot under

Playful, lighthearted questions.

3 feet under

Reflective prompts about values and life.

6 feet under

Questions about end-of-life preferences.

Card deck
Card deck tiers
Card deck detail

📘 Learn (Chapter 1)

Chapter 1 invites readers to explore sustainable funeral options through playful, thought-provoking questions. We turned facts into a pop-quiz-style experience that surprises and informs, then walks through key sustainable funeral concepts.

Learn chapter
Learn chapter detail
Sustainable options

🪞 Reflect (Chapter 2)

This chapter invites users to pause and think through what matters most to them. It includes gentle journaling prompts and space for personal notes, helping users build clarity through self-awareness.

Reflect chapter
Journaling prompts

📝 Decide (Chapter 3)

Finally, users are guided through recording their wishes:

  • Burial method
  • Ceremony preferences
  • Messages for loved ones
  • Special requests or rituals

This section is practical, empowering, and designed to be shared — so families feel supported and decisions feel aligned with the person they're honoring.

Decide chapter
Wishes checklist
Guidebook
Guidebook
Guidebook

My Takeaways

Meet the team: Adeline + Kim. We found ourselves navigating tender ground.

We found ourselves navigating tender ground

Designing for something as personal as end-of-life planning wasn't easy — it asked us to be more patient and thoughtful. Our role wasn't to give answers, but to gently guide people through an emotional journey.

We broke out of the screen

Instead of defaulting to a digital app, we explored tangible tools — a card deck and a guidebook — helping families ease into hard conversations.

We learned to trust each other

With the pace moving fast, we had no choice but to communicate clearly, make quick decisions, and support one another. The pressure brought out the best in our collaboration.

We came out changed

By the end, we weren't just better at design. We were better at listening, holding space, and thinking about how products can meet people where they are — especially in life's most vulnerable moments.

Team
Closing

Wanna collaborate?

I am currently looking for a team where I can take part, learn from, and become a better designer (/human).

Let's Chat! ↗
Kim Au Le